Humble but Profitable

Pyuuuhh.. Finally i can have the internet access to open my friendster after sometimes:)

Year 2007 has just arrived, the BRAND new Year that everybody has a special wishes to be a better man and life

Just want to say thanks to everyone who has made me happy in year 2006 and all ur supports during 2006, especially for those who always back me up whenever i felt, love you guys.

Special thanks for everybody who has made me painful, hurt, and drop many times. Because of you, i feel stronger now, without you guys, i didn’t get many learning points in my life:)

my wishes in 2007:
1. solved all the problems that hasn’t finished yet in 2006
2. Be a better man for everyone
3. Stay Cool like a pool, nice like a rice and keep humble but profitable

Love,

Benny R

15th of Feb, i was officially 26th years living in this earth!

I was happy because some people that unexpected didn’t forget my birthday, eventhough they forget my job for example.:) older, some people asked what are your wishes? i think i only have one wish, I hope i can still and always be someone who never stop to share all my efforts to help anyone in this world. Simple wish but looks not simple in implementation.

Beside my happiness of my birthday, i am sad as well, when it was my birthday a sister of my best friend was hospitalized because of dengue fever, beside that there is one problem that until now i can’t solve it, is happen with my friend, my best friend which has been knowing each other for more than 10 years, until now he still demotivated to continue his study especially after his father passed away,he’s not graduated yet untill now, i always monitoring him and some of our friends in our gank still pursue him to make him graduate soon but none of us success, stress to see my friend’s condition, i have special wish may he graduate soon, is only one more step!! he’s very best friend for me, he has one day earlier birthday than me, if you have any ideas how to help me on it, please let me know..:)

Last, please allow me to express my highest appreciation for:

- Special thanks to my parents who has been becoming good coach in my life until i am now 26th years old.

- My Sister, niece, nephew and brother in law, for the special wishes, especially my niece and nephen who were angry because my mom didn’t come to Jakarta to make a birthday cake for me, so cute of you guys..:) miss you so much dear!!

To all Mumbai comrades, especially for :

- Ipek, my sweet turkish girl, the first person who sent me a greeting for my birthday!!, Monika Baran, she forgot my job but she rememberred my birthday, Paul Vivash my Slackers team at ABN AMRO Mumbai!!

- Office mates in M-Knows Consulting

- Le Cadeau People!! : Indrayani, Irma, Imelda, Meriani!!

- AIESEC’s people : Gege, Ryan,syang-syang,hossu,anja,ceha,mbak ann, tenne, windy, dedek, hisma, evi and many more of you that i can’t mention

- Mas dedek my criminal brother!

- Rini thanks for the special gift in the morning, the chicken porridge for my breakfast it was just perfect time!

- Robby, Irvan, ayu my insight 3 people

And for all the people who has greeted me, thanks so much for all your wishes, may GOD always enlighten our life, ameen!!!

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29th of January 2005 - Mumbai, India.

It was the date when i was officially finish as a trainee in ABN AMRO Bank India, my project has done perfectly, the output expected from the Bank was delivered as they expected, and my dream was about coming, that was visit one of the 7 miracles in the world, Taj Mahal!

it’s now exactly 1 year my post indian life, eventhough i close my eyes, India and all the moments are still in my eyes, heart and soul. My life has changed a lot when i came to India, my decision to India wasn’t the bad decision, eventhough many people againts to me to go there because i have another choices to australia or canada at that time. India has brought me to become someone who can more respect the art of living in diversity, the art of managing people, the art of how to play your role in a very dynamic time, i learnt so much about how india growing very fast, and how taught me on how to encounter yourself in many kinds of situation.

Paul,Quirijn,Gabriela,Ipek,Gabriel,Isabel,Marek,Agnez,Sunil,Big Sunil,Natalie,Wouter,Sam,Nicole,Gaitree,Lone,Monika,Julia,Kerstin,Megan,Dan, Danish, Roland, Jodha, Iva, Simone,shreya, shivangi, advait and many more AIESEC’s friends of fun who has surrounded me in bad and good time when i was in india.

My flat mates, nishikant, gaurav, sobhin, rupa, my codu and dobi (The best maid i’ve ever had in my life, very good in cooking) they always made fun after office hour with their typical indian jokes!

My office mates, Sangeetha my best friend and manager who always together in the good and great time of professional life, Kumkum the Head of my Division, Raj Katra my HR HEAD who has helped a lot when i was in ABN AMRO, who provided me the best accomodation for free!!,Jyoti Javeri the person who helped me in any trouble and i was bad to call her Mr instead of Mrs. prior my arrival.. hehehe, she looks very young but quite old though. Ms.Smitha, the payroll girl who always receive complaint from me everymonth due to my salary is always late to arrive at my account, but it wasn’t her fault, was her subordinate’s fault, daisy the secretary, pearl the sweet girl who always say good morning whenever we meet,ranjit the best gossiper in ABN AMRO who always come to my desk just talk about "whose that girl" especially the girl with the diamond eyes near mt work station,and many more!!

One Sentence for all ofyou guys!!! I DO MISSING YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!

I am wishing that i can meet you up soon anywhere!!!!

Special person  who were outside india but keep me awake and always re-charge my energy:

My Parents,Sister, niece and nephew!!

Thamarai who always brigthen up my life with your romantic words through sms and email.

Some of my favourites food in India :

Chicken biryani, capati, dal, bhel puri, parata, garlic utapam, samosa, cheese utapam,Kulfi (it;s me and gaby’s fave),Chicken Tika masala, Sizzling brownies, chicken wraps.

Favourite places:

Phoenix mills, the Indonesian Embassy (especially every wednesday, indonesian diner, sluurrrpy),churchgate (the book market), Shakar bhavan,bandra, andheri, dadar east (my appartment),bombay blue restaurant, colaba, agra,GOA, delhi,matheran.

The best transportation vehicle:

TRAIN and the RICKSHAW!! The train always changed my profile from ABN AMRO Employee become the rugby players!!

Thanks to AIESEC who has facilitated me to get this chance to came and live in India!!!

Thanks to my parents who always stay beside me in any condition!!

Thanks to my best friends in insight 3, circle of friends, ipiems, M-knows, AIESEC LC-US, and many more friends that i can’t mention one by one!!

INDIA, I MISS YOU!!!!

- Seorang anak disiram air panas oleh ibunya dikarenakan tidak mau mencuci piring…

- kakak beradik yang masih SD ditendang ke dalam toilet dan kepalanya dimasukan ke dalam toilet

- Balita di bakar oleh ibunya walaupun akhirnya berhasil diselamatkan

- Wanita berumur 7 tahun di seterika oleh bapaknya..

Apakah ini yang semakin menguatkan bahwa setan telah mengundurkan diri dari bumi karena melihat perilaku manusia lebih buruk dari perilaku setan?

Atau memang negara kita ini lagi kacau, sehingga mempengaruhi emosi orang segitu parahnya?

Atau memang tidak ada lagi orang yang bisa dijadikan panutan untuk mengajarkan mengendalikan emosi untuk menghadapi anak-anak yang penuh keceriaan dan kebahagiaan?

Saya cuman bisa sedih, menangis dan berdoa ketika mendengar berita tersebut sembari memikirkan bagaimana bisa mencegah untuk tidak terjadi lagi hal tersebut, paling tidak di sekitar saya hidup.

Kejadian itu membuat saya semakin berpikir lebih selektif dalam memilih calon ibu buat future kids saya. Anak-anak tidak bisa dididik dengan kekerasan fisik, tetapi harus dengan hati dan logika, masa mereka adalah masa dimana untuk mempertajam daya pikir mereka, daya kreatifitas mereka yang intinya itu adalah masa bahagia mereka.

Jangan biarkan masa bahagia mereka menjadi masa suram selamanya

Credit card buat anak umur 15 tahun sudah ada di indonesia…..

Studi Tour anak SMU ke Perancis atau negara lain yg jauh disono..

Dan masih banyak hal lain nya yang kurang terdeteksi sama saya…

Ada apa dengan Indonesia?

Kasian sih melihat hal tersebut… Kok generasi ini seolah-olah akan dijadikan generasi yang konsumtif ya? bukan sebagai generasi yang hidup secara effisien atau basic needs based not lifestyle based…

Salah satu kasus,study tour ke LN, terjadi di salah satu SMU yang terkenal tapi lokal, kalau international school sih saya masih bisa pahami, tapi di lokal, tidak semua kemampuan keuangannya sama, apakah di dalam negeri ini tidak banyak yg bisa dipelajari?

Salah siapa kah ini? saya tidak layak untuk menjawab nya, silahkan kita berpaling ke diri kita sendiri…

Tulisan ini hanyalah curhatan hamba allah yg biasa saja.. mohon maaf jika ada yang tersinggung.

Beauty kill the Beast.. the words that has attached properly in my mind after i watched the Kingkong.. It’s very meaningfull for me.. why?

If we pull it back into reality of life, when people able to win the heart share of someone, he/she must be able to wind the mind share then after that they can easily makes a deal in whatever the aspects. The ability to wind the heart share is should has very good integrity, or if it’s in football we call it as fair play.

People will respect to you..

People will put you as their role model…

People will helps you anytime whenever you need them..

It’s all happens If only we play "Beauty" in your game …:)

Let’s make love not make war!

Cooperate not compete!